Sexuality

Baruch Menache
2 min readAug 18, 2022

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For those unfamiliar with recent sociocultural shifts, it may be pertinent to note the increasing prominence of sex-positivity within contemporary discourse. Those who consider this topic sensitive are likely accurate in their assessment. Sexual topics and values occupy a central position of interest in society — leaving scholars to investigate the origins of this reality. This interest pervades the household, the workplace, and public discourse, revealing a societal captivation with anything imbued with sexual dimensions.

For the sake of generalization, let us posit that there are two principal approaches to sexuality. The first casts sexuality as a degrading force upon human conscience, fundamentally negative and inherently prone to corrupting its encounters. This perspective views the sexual impulse as something to be tolerated out of necessity, yet reduced to its briefest, most transient moments. Here, quantity supersedes quality, positioning sexuality as a task to be concluded swiftly rather than as an inherently valuable experience. Justice, in this framework, demands stringent punishment for those who misuse this impulse. Though some view sexuality as too minor an act to warrant such measures, these voices occupy the extremes of the sex-negative approach. The moderate stance within this framework assigns sexuality sufficient importance to merit justice, advocating for a measured but critical regard of sexuality and acknowledging it as worthy of rigorous judgment.

Conversely, there exists the sex-positive perspective, which remains a minority viewpoint yet significant in influence. This view positions sexuality as foundational to life itself, perceiving societies as historically biased toward rigid sexual conformity. Proponents of this view advocate for openness across all expressions of sexual impulse and are critical of terms like “impulse,” which, they argue, may diminish the broader concept of sexual enlightenment. Here, the process of sexual expression is valued over any endpoint or climax, driving exploration into sexuality’s fullest depth and society’s acceptance of diverse expressions. Conventional views are seen as restrictive, and heightened punitive measures for sexual behavior are met with concern, as they are perceived to limit the boundaries of expression. This perspective calls for greater societal acceptance and for re-evaluating formerly criminalized acts, positing that broadening societal frameworks around sexuality reveals previously overlooked value.

Thus, the question emerges: are you sex-positive or sex-negative?

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